What can Facebook use over?
What can Facebook use over?
Today Fb is 1 billion + registered user, i.e. every seventh person in the world is Fb pay and in all probability you will also be one of them. And Fb will be using hobby. But the thing to think about is that you use Fb; Do overuse:
What can Facebook over use?
Its list is very long but today I am sharing 7 such points, let's see them
1) Do you unknowingly give control of your happiness to others?
how ? In fact, your happiness now depends on the fact that how many people are doing your things, how many people are doing your pics on Fb, how many people are commenting on it ... how are the comments ... etc For instance you took a new look and his photo post ... obviously you loved watching so much because you took it ... but when Fb does not like more people like him and someone makes fun of him then you are unhappy. And its reverse is also right ... you do not like anything but the rest say good to you then you are happy ... so in a way you give control to your Fb friends. I do not say that it happens with everyone but it is so important that we are affected by these things somewhere.
These small tiny effects grow and we do not even know where we left our real self.
2) Do you see the blessings of others and your shortcomings?
People on Fb generally share the good things of their life ... people tell good things to be done with them, their status is something like "My new machine", "Lost in London" .. etc
In reality you do the same, but inwardly you know your reality, but in the case of others you see what they show you, you see their new car but not the EMI that comes with it, You see the friend's swanky office but not the tension you get with him. And when this happens, you begin to compare their happiness with their miseries and eventually begin to feel low.
Due to Fb, the number of people going to depression is increasing day by day, just beware that you too do not have it.
3) Real Friends and Relationships suffer:
Many times people very proudly say, "I have 500 friends on Fb ..." I am sure half of them pass in front and they will not even recognize them. In fact, our friends at FB are less and acquaintances are much more. Well this is not a bad thing ... but if we give more or less fake relationships more than required, then somewhere we compromise with the time we should give to our family and friends. I know our close friends and relationships are also Fb, but on frankly speaking Fb they also become like ordinary people to us, because Fb is like a crowd ... and there is no face of the crowd .... Had had ... liked, commented and went forward .... Paying attention to Individuals is not only in the soul of Fb.
4) You seem to communicate mainly by addicts:
Perhaps you might have heard about Pareto principle ... This principle says that 20% of the things are responsible for 80% of things.
For eg. 80% of any company's sales are due to 20% of customers.
Something similar happens to Fb ... 80% of the updates are done by 20% people ... and you keep linking them from time to time ... and basically these are the only addict kind of people who just stick to Fb . And interacting with such people can seldom tell you things about work. These are mostly waste of time only.
5) You are confused about being socially active and reality is the opposite:
Many people start to understand themselves socially active as they are on Facebook, and understand their role by hi-bye to friends. Slowly it becomes completely mechanical ... you do Fb pay hi but when you meet in college or office with the same friend do not even react ... it is like your online presence matters but your own present will be worthless Ho .
And when you behave like this, people begin to avoid you and you start to think of something fake. That is, you feel that you are in touch, but on the contrary you lose your touch.
6) There is a bad effect on your health:
By fitting on Fb, you can have both physical and mental problems. Your eyes may weaken, sitting in the wrong posture can lead to spondylitis. And the danger of going into depression is always there.
7) You put the most energetic days of your life in lazy entertainment:
The demographics of Fb users are used by young people of most teens and twenties. if you If you are out of this age group, then this point is not applicable to you. That time of teenage and twenties life is there when there is no shortage of energy in you ... It is ever thought that why God gives you the most energy at the moment .... Because these are our life making years .... There is a lot to do in front of you at this time ... .. The challenge of raising the burden of responsibility or the responsibility of the home ... to make a career and to beat the competition. wanting to pass up ... Which of parents Making them the space to stretch howl that stubborn ... and requires energy to all ... should energy; but unfortunately let him invest the wrong place to over usage of Fb. Where they have such important work to do, they sit in a corner, and in, most of the cases lie down ... these energetic days of their lives put in a completely unproductive thing.
